How long have you been practicing BDSM as a dominant?
My husband and I have been practicing BDSM for a little over five years and I have always been in this position from the beginning. I switch with my husband only, which gives me a global vision of our sphere.  Which I consider to be a real wealth by the way.

What are your limits as a dominant?
I am in my element when I exercise sensual domination, but I know how to be rigid when necessary. I am not involved in the practice of zoophilia and scatophilia. I feel pleasure in making my submissives exceed their limits, because they are almost always constantly evolving.

What are your favorite objects for domination?
The objects are the reflection of my desires and my moods, but I particularly appreciate my fetish whip, especially at the beginning of the session. Then, my dragon tongue is an object that I appreciate enormously. My claws usually end and close a session that is focused on impact. I was lucky enough to meet a talented craftsman who created most of my "toys".

How do you prepare a domination session? Where?
This is a subject of capital importance... The submissives frequently contact me by e-mail. Then, we exchange to define the 'perimeter' of games. Finally, I systematically plan a telephone interview with them before planning a session. In clubs or evenings, the approach is more direct and conversations before any games are essential.

How do you choose your submissives?
The choice is based above all on feeling. It is imperative that I can connect during a session, otherwise I don't feel any pleasure. It doesn't matter if it's a woman, a man or a transgender person, I have the same fun with everyone.

What are your criteria for determining if a submissive is ready for a domination session?
First and foremost, I really consider the psychological state as my first concern. I don't see myself abusing a person who would be in a fragile situation. Then, it is also necessary to take into account the physical state, a session is not trivial. The last thing to take into account is the motivation of the person who comes to me. It is crucial that I feel a real commitment to me. I am not for chain sessions, without souls. I want people to come to meet Sekhmet, and not just to take a whip or something.

What rituals or rules do you impose on your submissives?
First of all, and even if it may seem trivial, it is essential to have impeccable hygiene. Then, at the beginning of the session, putting them in a cage in the dungeon allows me to set the situation, blindfolded, the sound of my heels on the parquet floor, the sound of my whip on the bars of the cage helps to create the first shivers... And of course the inevitable use of the formal "vous" which finishes setting the "picture".

How do you manage the limits and desires of your submissives during a session?
For me, management during a session depends on a perfect knowledge of the practices envisaged, reading the body, the skin of the sub and of course the implementation. Of a "safe world" with a progressive color system. If black means the immediate end of the session, that would be a failure for me. So far, I only have: 'Madam, it's very dark red'! :-)

What are your future projects?
My husband and I organize parties (Les Sekhmet Party) in Paris at the Taken Club every two months. We intend to roll out this concept on a national scale. We have already organized an edition at the Takeya dungeon, which turned out to be a real success. We want elegant parties with neat outfits, but parties for real players. Parties where people are there to parade and be noticed do not suit us, and we get bored. I am also in contact with Carré Noir, an association that I really appreciate. The kindness is omnipresent and we always have a great time. They now have a house dedicated to our universe which allows us to consider many things. We are with Hèrvé on one of these upcoming editions of the "Sekhmet Party". There is even a dungeon that can be privatized for personal use which in the Le Havre region is not so common.

What are your favorite brands of accessories and outfits? How did you find out about the Catanzaro brand?
It's a vast subject for me, as a woman... For latex, my heart beats for SIGRID Latex, which produces extraordinary work at reasonable prices. In addition, I am really happy to support our economy, our French artisans who are truly talented. As for more distinctive pieces, I love Kink bite who has already made me leather pieces of incomparable comfort. For my toys, it's héritage de Sade who has made most of my custom objects taking into account my needs and my morphology. There is also Eons whip who provided me with my two paracord twins and who, with Alban from héritage de Sade, made me my bullwhip. My fetish whip comes from Patrick Vich who also makes my custom whips. Catanzaro is a brand that I have been wearing for a long time, well before I started to take an interest in BDSM. Once again, it is a real pleasure to support our French industry! To create my favorite looks, I like to mix lines in different styles. I also wore for my birthday the "Cougar fishnet" dress that was given to me by my man. I like the vinyl lines that I regularly wear over a fishnet jumpsuit... It seems that the result arouses some emotions ;-)

Do you have a funny anecdote to tell?
There are of course many anecdotes as in all professions but I think that the funniest is the one about a submissive who had been sent to me by his wife because he looked too much at women's feet in the street and it was to a point where his wife was embarrassed! The poor man arrived at the dungeon in comfortable sneakers and did not know what awaited him..... Cane, whip, dragon tongue... His arches still remember it. I had asked his wife to put the most essential city shoes he had in his bag. He left with a very particular gait! A week later I received an email from his wife who was extremely satisfied with my services because since then he no longer lowers his eyes and walks looking straight ahead. We laughed a lot in the end with this woman that I ended up having on the phone…

Did your entourage and family support you in your choice of career/life?
I am extraordinarily lucky to have a husband who also works in the nightlife world and who immediately supported me when Sekhmet was born. I am coming out of a big physical ordeal with a broken arm that handicapped me a lot, he was always there to the point of putting on my stockings before the sessions in the dungeon, but I think he liked that too :-) There has never been an ounce of jealousy since Sekhmet was born, I have a golden husband! As for the children, well they are grown up and can distinguish between their mother and Sekhmet. So we can consider that I am very lucky in this respect. Over time, you see that in France there are fewer and fewer taboos about BDSM.

Are your services more in demand?
BDSM is “popular” at the moment and is tending to become more democratic…. Is this a good thing? The future will tell us...