Venus O'Hara is an English author and sex vlogger living in Spain. Her passion for sexuality and the exploration of sensuality led her to create a fetish blog in 2009, where she showcases her erotic photography.

She is currently the author of several books on sexuality and relationships, in which she shares her unique and liberating perspective on the subject. In addition, she has collaborated with various brands, magazines, and media outlets in creating content related to eroticism and pleasure.

Venus O'Hara is a brave, creative, and passionate woman who invites us to challenge taboos and prejudices surrounding sexuality. Her work and advocacy for sexual freedom and pleasure encourage us to be more authentic and fully enjoy our sexuality. We had the pleasure of asking her a few questions about her journey.

What kind of content or information do you like to share on your blog and podcast?
When I started my blog in 2009, I talked about fetishism as an art form. I love non-explicit photos that can spark the viewer’s imagination. My blog still has a VIP section with fetish photos, and there are more subscribers than ever. It is one of the few fetish websites without Photoshop or filters, promoting a body positivity message. Soon after, I published a very comprehensive fetish glossary and started reviewing sex toys. Today, I continue to post reviews and erotic stories. In 2017, I had a spiritual awakening that changed my perspective on life, work, and sexuality. Since then, I have focused on sacred sexuality, sexual transmutation, Tantra, Taoism, and a conscious and healthy lifestyle.
In 2021, I launched the podcast and YouTube channel The Orgasmic Lifestyle, where experts discuss orgasmic topics such as nutrition, spirituality, personal development, sexuality, and more.

How do you think meditation can influence people’s sex lives?
Meditating as a couple is fantastic—it’s something deeply intimate. Sit together, hold hands, and explore within. Meditation is my inner sanctuary, accessible at any time. It fosters a profound intimacy that goes beyond physical sex.

What advice would you give to people looking to improve their sex and emotional life through meditation and sex toy exploration?
Meditation and sex toys can be combined. I listen to affirmations when I masturbate. I have trained myself to hear affirmations, and each orgasm has a purpose beyond pleasure. As a couple, you can use sound therapy and play background music for different sensory experiences. The good news is that you don’t need to focus solely on male genitalia—it's essential to explore various erogenous zones.

In your opinion, how do prejudices and taboos around sex impact today’s society?
My blog acted as a filter between those who accepted what I did and those who didn’t support it. There are some things I wouldn’t do again, or I would approach differently. When your social circle doesn’t support you, it can be hurtful and difficult. Dedicating yourself to promoting sexuality and showing your face is a sacrifice. I lost that fear a long time ago. When you have a public online profile, you must be strong enough to handle haters, negative comments, and criticism. Everything you put online will have an impact in the future. You have to think very carefully before exposing yourself online.

Have you encountered any issues in sharing your knowledge, such as censorship on Instagram?
I don’t get censored on Instagram because I take a more holistic approach. I want to present sex toys as personal development tools. I plan to start posting more on my blog, where there’s no censorship. I focus more on sexual sensations rather than explicit content.

What is the biggest lesson you’ve learned in your journey as a sex toy and meditation blogger?
My spiritual awakening changed my approach to content creation. Before, I thought about what I could earn; now, I think about what I can contribute. I used to be ashamed of showing myself as I was, but now I’ve removed that mask and embrace my true self. It has been a profound journey of self-discovery.

What have you enjoyed most in your career?
The best part is that I’ve spent 15 years without a morning alarm. That’s what inspired my podcast—it’s about bringing climax to all areas of life. Waking up every day well-rested and feeling natural is priceless. I also love being able to chat with sex professionals and openly discuss orgasms. Though, at times, it has affected my personal sex life, as it can be hard to separate work from pleasure.

Which toy do you recommend?
Without a doubt, the Satisfyer Pro 2.

What are your future projects?
I will continue my blog, publishing reviews and erotic stories, and soon, buying guides.

To learn more about Venus O'Hara, you can follow her on Instagram, YouTube, or visit her website:
Instagram: @venusohara
YouTube: @venusohara
Website: www.venusohara.org